{"id":448,"date":"2021-12-14T14:47:17","date_gmt":"2021-12-14T04:47:17","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/61b81dcd0e6f8d00295b8762"},"modified":"2023-06-02T19:23:06","modified_gmt":"2023-06-02T09:23:06","slug":"saying-yes-to-the-dress-5-tips-to-help-you-on-your-way","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/hireabridesmaid.com.au\/saying-yes-to-the-dress-5-tips-to-help-you-on-your-way\/","title":{"rendered":"Saying ‘YES’ to the Dress – 5 Tips to help you on your way!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Okay, so you\u2019ve said yes to that one special person who makes you feel like you\u2019re on top of the world, but there is still one HUGE<\/em> decision to make\u2026.. your wedding dress! Whilst I didn\u2019t make a rash decision with my husband\u2019s proposal (*phew*), I did<\/em> rush my decision when choosing a dress.<\/p>\n

From the moment I started planning our wedding (from the bend of the knee lol)<\/em>, I had a vision in my mind of the dress I thought I wanted. So, off I went to the bridal shop, where I tried on a couple of dresses to entertain my family and friends, and said \u2018yes\u2019 to a dress. One year later, after two fittings and lots of tears, I decided I just didn\u2019t feel sparkly in the dress anymore and bought a new one! *Doh!* <\/em><\/p>\n

Maybe I was too keen the first time around, too early off the starting line to buy- or maybe I just couldn\u2019t let go of the dress in my head, but I hope my story will help to guide you on your own \u2018yes<\/em>\u2019 journey…<\/p>\n

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When it comes to choosing the right dress or suit for you, there are soooooo many options out there! But THE most important thing is how you feel in the outfit! Imagine your setting, and picture yourself on your wedding day, standing (and sitting) in the dress. Does it make you feel like the Queen you are? Does it hold you in the right places? Also, a helpful hint – ask someone to take a photo of you in the dress in the bridal store (if they allow it) so you can see how it will look in photos!<\/p>\n

I have no doubt you have pinned and researched what dress or outfit you want to wear on your day, but maybe these few points will help you say \u2018yes\u2019 and avoid my dress dilemma!<\/p>\n

1. Budget<\/h2>\n

Like every aspect of wedding planning, I recommend having a budget in mind before<\/em> you go shopping! Being able to give the consultant a limit on price means you don\u2019t fall into the upsetting trap of trying on your dream dress, to later find out that it is wayyyyyy<\/em> over budget. You\u2019ll cry, get upset and then have set a bar in your head, that just isn\u2019t possible to reach. There are BEAUTIFUL dresses at every price range. Once again, believe me- I went in the first time around leaving with a $4000 dress, and ultimately spent $800 on \u2018the one\u2019. #sorrydad<\/p>\n

2. Dress Shape\/Style<\/h2>\n

My biggest advice here is to keep an open mind when trying on dresses. I went in thinking I wanted a beautiful mermaid dress that sculpted to my body and refused to try on anything else (the first time round). A few alterations to it later and I still wasn\u2019t happy. I felt so self-conscious in it, I burst into tears. The second time around I tried every style, taking the bridal stylist’s recommendations as well\u2026 and ended up in a classic A-line dress that really was \u2018The One’. Much like a partner, you have to try a few different styles<\/em> to find the perfect fit! (See what I did there?!).<\/em> Even if your dream dress feels right, try something else to be sure! Options here again go on and on\u2026 A-line, Mermaid, Two-Piece, Jumpsuits, Trumpet, Ball Gown, Tea Length\u2026. And then there’s the different types of neckline and sleeve length, too! It can be overwhelming, but I recommend you start with some ideas in mind and be open to suggestion.<\/p>\n

3. Your Cheerleaders<\/h2>\n

Of course, you want to have a second, third and fourth opinion, but when shopping for your dream dress, try to keep the entourage to a select few. Depending on the store, they may even have max numbers anyway (thanks covid<\/em>), but make sure that your opinion isn\u2019t overpowered or ignored- it\u2019s useful to have friends and family there, but remember, \u2018nobody puts baby in the corner\u2019.<\/p>\n

4. Weather<\/h2>\n

Think about the expected climate of your wedding date and location. If you\u2019re marrying in the middle of summer and your ceremony is outdoors, sleeves may cause you to become a sweaty mess! Perhaps there is a dress you can add sleeves to later for the reception? If you\u2019re marrying in winter, maybe they are a must? Then of course there\u2019s the endless options across the spectrum, cap sleeves, spaghetti straps, strapless, three-quarter and literally everything in between. Be sure to remember the season in which you are marrying- as this may even affect the fabrics and weight of the dress you pick!<\/p>\n

5. The Venue and Terrain<\/h2>\n

Are you getting married in a Church? If so, make sure to check they don\u2019t have any guidelines such as shoulders being covered. If this is the case, and it doesn\u2019t fit your dream dress, try adding a bolero or cape (because let\u2019s be honest you\u2019re already a superwoman<\/em>) that can be removed for photos and your reception. If you\u2019re getting married on the beach, do you want to go barefoot? If not think about a way to make sure you don\u2019t sink in the sand when walking down the aisle. Maybe a thick jute rug or something similar. Same goes for choosing a style appropriate for the terrain – if you’re getting married on a farm-style property, is a seven-layer ballgown going to be the most appropriate or comfortable option for you? Maybe not..? Wherever you are tying the knot, take everything into consideration.<\/p>\n

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The Takeaway? You want to feel like a complete goddess in whatever you choose to wear- and deserve to feel every bit of sparkle possible. Don\u2019t be disheartened if the first store you try doesn\u2019t have the yes dress. It IS out there and waiting for you- because just as fate led you to the love of your life, it will carry you to your dream dress; of that I\u2019m certain.<\/p>\n

Much Love as always,<\/p>\n

Lauren x<\/p>\n

PS. That’s me pictured above, please feel free to shout compliments!<\/p>\n

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